1. We are out and living life without shame
“I was never in a closet. Closets are for blue jeans, leathers, laces, boas, and heels. I’m not proud of being gay any more than I’m proud of having grey eyes… it wasn’t my choice, but I’m comfortable with it. What I AM proud of is how I decided not to hide, to live my life as exactly who and what I am… unashamed and unabashed. I am proud of all the good I’ve been able to do in this life because of (and in spite of) what others expected of me. I’m proud to work at Lifelong where I can look in my clients’ eyes and see a little glimmer of hope where there used to be despair.”
- Scott Hix, Healthy Connections Coordinator
2. We are giving support to those who need it most
“I was incredibly lucky and privileged to have a family who accepted me for who I am. Because of this, I feel strongly that I should pay back that privilege to those in my community who have not been so blessed. I ‘adopt’ queer kids and adults who have lost their families’ support upon coming out. Whatever level of ‘mom’ energy they need, I’m here. I do this not just because I know that they are sad and lonely, but because I know that those who have been abandoned by family have lost the foundation of their support structures, and are some of the most vulnerable people out there. They are valuable humans who deserve the same level of love and support as anyone else.”
- Eris Stewart, Human Resources Specialist
3. We don’t let others bring us down
“We march for the purpose of being seen, to acknowledge that we exist, to know there are others that think like us, and to not let negativity affect our lives. Our community suffers from lack of self-worth due to society not valuing us. I wouldn’t be where I am if I didn’t have the support in my life from my family and friends. They helped me see my worth and importance and I am very grateful for that.”
- Max Engman, Warehouse Specialist
4. We rejoice in the love and community
“As a trans and non-binary queer person, the love and joy I see during Pride is always so heartening. I’ve had a long journey to where I am today, but Pride has always been a time for celebration and resilience in the face of sweeping inequities. I look forward to rejoicing with others every year. Happy Pride!”
- Lifelong staff member
5. We celebrate our journeys and who we are today
“At 26, I was homeless, gay, and struggling with addiction. I hit rock bottom. Being a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, which experiences addiction rates at 2-3 times the rate of the general population, I am proud to celebrate 33 years clean and sober with my partner of 14 years (and we’ve been married for 2).”
- James Ludwig, Program Manager of Medical Case Management - Everett Office
However you celebrate Pride, remember: we are stronger together!